Example on Reflecting Upon My Lessons

Introduction

The results of ‘appearance image fixation questionnaire’ unit questions were not as shocking as they depicted the real me. Although I took two tests with different mind-set, I have a comfortable, happy presence in my body. From the questions, I learned that I am a confident individual who believes in himself. Besides, I realized that I could make a good leader because I am proud of my body, and I have excellent interpersonal skills.

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During ‘Willingness to Listen Measure’ unit, I took the test severally in ensuring that I get the score matching my persona and my belief in the work environment. Through the test, I found that I am an individual who does not listen to other people. However, I feel that it was incorrect because at work, I am an open manager, and I listen to the other people in my team.

The ‘Time orientation’ unit is one of the tests that was accurate as it presented the real me. The test showed that I am adaptable and flexible, which is very true. It is through working in retail that I acquired the skills because the sector is unpredictable.

The unit 4 test indicated that I have low interethnic communication apprehension even though I believe the test is not true basing on my best experience. I am usually comfortable when I approach individual from other cultures because working in retail presents one with different types of customers. Initially, I feared approaching the clients because of the language barrier, but now I can communicate with them efficiently.

From the ‘Talkaholic Scale’ test, I was able to learn I am talkative, which is somehow suitable for every organization. Besides, I learned that I am a compulsive communicator. I also love speaking on behalf of other individuals. Speaking for other people is a show that I do not possess listening skills, and I do not value what other people will say.

The Nonverbal Immediacy Scale was a good unit which I highly scored. Considering my kind of job, I have learned that I am more welcoming just like women. Also, I communicate with others well in a considerate manner and ensure that they agree with what I meant. Therefore, I have now confirmed that I can easily connect with other people. However, I believe that I should interact with other people more.

The score of 48 is in ‘Introversion scale’ is an indication that I am an introvert. I disagree with the test because I am an extrovert. The reason is that I enjoy interacting with people and when at a party I am usually the centre of attraction. Therefore, the result of the unit was a bit shocking.

A Plan for Improvement of My Interpersonal Communication

From unit one, I will improve my interpersonal skills by being assertive and cultivating positive outlook. Also, showing real interest to other individuals will help me improve my interpersonal skills. Moreover, I will ensure that I improve by listening to other people attentively. It is only through this that I will be able to learn from others. Through the ‘Time Orientation’ unit, I will improve in ensuring that I am fast on adapting to a new environment and introduce new things there because one thing that works in one place may not work well in another place.

I will improve my interpersonal communication skills by learning more languages to communicate easily with clients at the store. Knowing the culture of other people will also be a plus since, in the United States, there are different cultures because it will enable me to be aware of other individuals and accept them the way they are. Furthermore, from ‘Talkaholic Scale' unit, I have learned that in future I should give other people the chance of speaking. When I speak, too much other people do not get the chance of expressing their views, which can negatively influence an organization. Also, giving others the chance of speaking can make me learn from them. I will learn to give other individuals respect they deserve and let them air out their thoughts. Through ‘Introversion Scale’ test, I learned that I should interact with other people more frequently.

The other plan for improving my interpersonal communication is being cognizant with myself. Self-awareness entails being aware of what I am feeling and thinking. Besides, knowing my non-verbal communications and emotions will improve my interpersonal communication skills. Essentially, people should mind themselves before responding to other individuals.

Conclusion

In summary, the course was very informative. Through it, I was able to learn my strengths and weaknesses. I am a talkative person, confident, interactive, and willing to learn about other people's culture. However, I plan to work towards giving other people the chance of speaking, being cognizant, learning more languages, and being assertive. It was a great unit as it gave me the chance of knowing myself more and it highlighted the areas which I should improve on in the future.