Letter from Ashima to Her Mother - Personal Essay Example

Date:  2021-06-18 23:21:30
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The water is about to break, this means am about to have a baby and the life am experiencing in Cambridge, Massachusetts is totally different from that of India. Ashoke, my husband has been of great help as far as my giving birth is concerned; for example, he accompanied me to the hospital in a taxi and sat in the waiting room. It is by God's grace he is alive to see his baby being born. During the time he was heading to his grandfather from Calcutta to Jamshedpur to pick the books that were to be handed to him, he nearly lost his life while reading a book authored by Gogol. The baby boy was born in the morning and the letter that grandmother sent that contained the two optional names, for a boy and a girl respectively had not arrived. The traditions of Bengali from India require an elderly person to choose the name of the child, and therefore, it is compulsory that the letter is put into consideration when naming the newly born child. On the contrary, the American tradition does not but much emphasis on the naming of the child. The father and the mother to the child can just come up with the child's name as soon as he or she is born without involving the elders. However, by the time I was discharged from the hospital, the letter with the names had not arrived forcing us to follow the American tradition that required a child to be given a name before leaving the hospital. Due to the fact the letter was late; we had to formulate a pet name of the baby boy that would be used until such a date that the name, chosen by grandmother would be available for use. My husband, therefore, chose the name Gogol as a reminder of his survival during the accident.

The traditions in both the identity and Culture set up of America and Bengali focus on the central issue of post-colonial studies. The duo components tend to abruptly change the direction in either post-colonial or colonial situation of the people whose origin lie within a small locale and emigration. As a result of the above, cross-cultural between the Americans and us, tend to crop up, which leads to intermarriages between different cultures, and act that is not common in Bengali. Additionally, due to the merging between us and the Americans, we inherit a hybrid type of culture. There are other numerous ways that the culture of Bengali is expressed in the United States, other than the ceremonies and rituals performed by Bengali, for example, costumes and food habits play a fundamental role in establishing the Bengali doctrines in the US.

The costumes of Bengali that differ from the American costume are worn in occasions such as dinners, wedding and birthday parties, despite their status as migrants. Cultural identity represents an essential symbolic function of food. The integral part of our culture is food habits which in most cases relates to a given sect of people or society. In conclusion, understanding that, it is through Bengali food consumption, wearing Bengali costume made clothes, speaking in the Bengali language, performing ceremonies that relate to birth, death, and marriage is the elements that glorify the name of our culture in this foreign land. However, that does not erase the fact that there is a significant difference between the first and second generation of people living in the diaspora as far as their attitude towards their native culture is concerned. I send this letter filled with joy, love, and greetings from my husband Ashoke and the children, and we hope to hear from you soon.

Yours Sincerely,



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